At your own risk.
Some men are trapped to the fantasy of the short and slender body that some commercial advertisements and sex movies, websites etc show. Models, actors of 18+ age but of this body type are used but the viewer's brain understands they may be of smaller age. A possible reason why movie producers may use a short slim body is to making the viewer's brain think the penis of the actor is very big. But unfortunately this type of body is close to the body of a child and the human brain can be addicted to anything.
So the viewer enjoying what he sees is trapped on thinking he is paedophile.
But it may be a trick of the mind. When we see something on screen we do not have any way to compare the body size shown to the size of our body.
If for example the viewer decides to have sex with a 18+ public woman of this body type he may immediately see or rather feel the difference. It is likely that the body sizes do not match at all. And he may not even like it although not long ago he was dreaming of it.
The fantasy may be gone just for technical reasons.
It is likely he will stop searching for a small body and will begin enjoying life with a tall woman of his proportions.
Perhaps all needed to be done is him telling her she is beautiful (to his taste). This true comment will have impact on her and a nice courtship friendship may begin.
At some earlier stage a top quality psychologist, psychoatrist, neurologist, psychotherapist who is honest, clever, capable may help a lot.
Love is needed.
Bibliography:
How to win friends and influence your environment - Dale Carnegie
Enchiridion - Epictetous
Fringe Knowledge for Beginners - Montalk
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