Why not pornography?
Because it makes us stare at women like crazy, our girlfriend notices and we may lose her too. By stoping watching nothing bad can happen.
(If needed one can happily go with a public woman (protecting measures of course)).
Because it makes you feel watched. The most natural expression, making love, may appear dirty. You may for example receive a frigtening email saying that the girls were under 18 when in fact they were not but were made to appear as such. If you feel watched it may make you hide many good things inside you. For example it may make you not publish your ideas on a blog. Not publishing your ideas makes it difficult for your brain to crate new ones as memory gets almost full. Keeping things inside you makes you feel even more frightened. And as of 2017 fear and making you fell insecure ie insecurity is the best product.
Because it is "free". It seems wise to suspect anything "free". In fact you pay it with lessons of your life and very expensive ones.
Because when felling guilty and down you are frightened and less likely to call the police. When unjust us happening to you. So you may let yourself become a victim of life until you stop the loop or vicious circle.
Because when people nearby you sense you are hungry for the other sex they will exploit it. In fact it is not them, it is you letting the, exploit you.
At a stage in a man's life where there is not a girlfriend it is far better going to a brothel and pay for sex with a real woman assuming all protection, condoms etc is used. It helps understanding that sex, the thing that you were ready to sell your soul for, is not that precious anyway.
Because it makes men look at women as objects. They are not, they are just like you. Treated like an object is the last thing a woman wants. After watching pornography when you go out on the street the next day all you would be thinking when looking any woman is what you saw yesterday. This will make women understand that you look at them in a strange way. They may be frightened. Watching the news helps a lot. The news and pornography are like cousins. One plays with the other. And it is not only news. Another relative that creates fear from thin air is fairytales such as the bad wolf etc. When you look at them in a strange way after the sex movie, their fear will project on you and you will be frightened too. It may make you feel someone that wants to do harm when all you would like is having a nice girlfriend and share the most beautiful thing in the world. This is positive feedback. The more alienated you feel the less likely woman are to talk to you back. The more alone you will feel. The more pornograohy you may watch. This is positive feedback, an electronic engineering term that describes increasing oscilation when the amplified microphone is close to the loudspeaker. All you have to do to stop this positive feedback is promising yourself you will never watch again. And realise that fear does not even exist. And then when you are calm you may very easily without any fear say to a woman that you like exactly what you feel. That you like her. Without wanting anything back. That she is beautiful. No matter how beautiful she is if what you say is true for yourself it is likely that she will not only talk back to you gladly but you may start being friends. The bad oscilation has stopped and now there is positive feedback on a good and happy oscilation for two.
Because it will make you feel that money is all there is. Money can buy sex but not love. And sex is much more interesting when there is love. A correct sequence between a man and a woman could be. Friends then loving each other then falling in love then sex. And women are not interested in money. They are interested when there is stupidity. There is nothing wrong with money but if you feel you need it you are already not free. And then not only money but everyone can control you. You lose the most worthy of all, freedom and free will. When you are happy you can give happiness to others too.
Because it may make you like girls under 18. Pornography above 18 concentrates a lot on this. It is the best way to lose your freedom. Girls just on 18 are dressed in a way that appear 15 years old. Not tall girls are deliberately chosen to highlight the young effect. Next thing you find yourself starring at your neighbour going to school in a sexual way. The neighborhood finds out. Call you a pedophile. And they help you to become as they treat you as such. And it's again positive feedback that needs to be broken by stopping watching pornography. Also not tall women are chosen so that the penis of the actor appears larger that it really is. This may open an inferiority complex from nothing. Also men looking at pornography full with non tall girls are more likely to make a pass on non tall women. Non tall women are fed up with this happening everywhere to them so they stop talking to men or even insult them. And you get frustrated thinking you are not worth. Whereas a tall woman feels alone because no one dares or wants to talk to. And if you talk to her she will be very glad and talk to you back. And you may find that you like her tall body very much. As it is the size suitable for your body. And suddenly you are not the pedophile of the neighborhood. A title you unjustly received because you happened to think you liked the non tall girls with body like children that you made yourself watch on pornography.
There is nothing more beautiful that a man and a woman who like and love each other caress each other for hours non stop before penetration or non penetration. This is making love. It is free.
References:
Enchiridion - Epictetous - free PDF
How to win friends and influence your environment - Dale Carnegie - free PDF
Fringe Knowledge for Beginers - Montalk - free PDF
The little price - Exupery
The ugly ducking - Andersen
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